Do you ever find yourself seeking advice or guidance outside of yourself?
I know I used to do this all the time. Especially on the topic of dating and relationships. I would get feedback from different people and end up even more uncertain and confused in the end.
Relationships bring up everything within us that is hiding – so there is a lot of material to work with here – for all of us!
I had this impulse to seek advice from other people because I didn’t fully trust that I know myself better than anyone and I can follow my intuition to discern what works for me and what doesn’t.
Here’s the thing about asking other people for advice…none of us actually know what we are doing! We can absolutely get support from other people but at the end of the day we need to feel into it and use our own discernment to decide what is true for us and what works for us.
Often people advising us are responding to us based on their own life experiences which they view through their own filter of their past. We have different life experiences and a different past – so what worked for them may not be what works for us in any given situation.
Receiving support from professionals is helpful because it allows us to expand our knowledge and awareness and we don’t know what we don’t know, but even then it is important to feel into it to see what is true for you. This is why I always say to my clients “take what works for you, and leave the rest”.
We have our own internal guidance system that we can tap into at any time and IT knows the answers. We know the answers and the best way to access this inner guidance is to get quiet and listen to our own inner knowing.
I also believe that our inner guidance is like a GPS and will course correct as many times as needed to lead us to the path that will align us with the highest expression of ourselves.
My main purpose as a coach is to guide my clients back to the answers within them.
I help my clients liberate themselves by uncovering the patterns and subconscious programs they are running that are not serving them so that they can fully release them and align their beliefs and their actions with their desired vision for their lives and relationships.
I am a guide – the rest comes from you!
If you need some support it tuning into the divine guidance that lies within you – let’s connect! Book your free consult here.