Something happened when I turned 40. I felt myself just let it all go. I let go of all of the expectations of where I should be by now, and who I should (or shouldn’t) be with and decided to just tune in with myself and make decisions about these things moment by moment based on my emotional guidance system.
I had a session with my mentor and coach Santo last week (and yes, coaches also need coaches) and he said something really profound that is worth sharing. He asked me “what is in front of you right now” and emphasized that focusing on what is in front of me will lead me to whatever I need to see or know about myself to heal, grow, and expand. He reminded me that life is our teacher.