Why Dating From An Incomplete Place Doesn’t Work

We have been programmed to believe that there is someone out there who will “complete” us and that until we find that one special person, we are incomplete.

The dating game becomes a quest for that one special person who will finally rescue us by making us whole and then we can relax because subsequently all of our problems will be solved. 

Spoiler alert: This is not a formula that will lead to a healthy connection with a partner. This is basically like building a house on a foundation of sand and hoping that it remains solid and sturdy. 

When we approach finding a partner as though we have a void inside us that needs to be filled – nothing and no one will ever be enough (and also people can sense it when we are coming from that energy!). 

We can’t control when and how we will meet our next partner. We can control the daily practices in our own lives to fill ourselves up so that when we do meet them, we come from a place of being whole and complete within ourselves which is a solid foundation to build a relationship on. Energetically we will also be much more attractive and magnetic coming from this place.

Doing the inner work to liberate ourselves from feelings of lack and limitation and filling ourselves up gives us the best chance of magnetizing in a beautiful partnership with another. 

If we keep doing what we have been doing, we will keep getting the same results. If you are ready to  align with the deepest desires in your heart – let’s connect and heal any blocks that are standing in your way of that partnership you desire:


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